1,014 men and women share how many sexual partners they've had
Before you read on, I have to admit, I was really unsure about what ranges to use (hence the larger ranges). I wanted the poll to be nonjudgemental/ inclusive enough for people to feel comfortable honestly sharing this intimate information about themselves. By providing larger ranges for men and women, I believed this would give us enough data to generate a general answer for this “don’t ask, don’t tell” topic.
Let’s dive in.
How many sexual partners have men and women had?
![](https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6593914e7a7ca5bdd0d24ea2/65e6d3efa1e5e67d90dbc3c9_image-asset%20(1).jpeg)
USAGE DISCLAIMER: The duplicating, uploading and distribution of this work/ data without permission or rightfully crediting the author is a theft of the author’s intellectual property. If you would like permission to use material, please contact hello@selfcareeverydamnday.com. Thank you for your support.
42% of men have had 1-15 sexual partners.
55% of women have had 1-15 sexual partners.
35% of men have had 16-40 sexual partners.
34% of women have had 16-40 sexual partners.
16% of men have had 41-80 sexual partners.
9% of women have had 41-80 sexual partners.
7% of men have had 80+ sexual partners.
2+ of women have had 80+ sexual partners.
For those of you wondering how old these voters are: The majority of my engaged audience are male and females, ages 25-40.
Related Article:Should you ask your partner how many people they’ve slept with?
How many sex partners is considered a lot or ‘too high’?
![](https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6593914e7a7ca5bdd0d24ea2/65e6d5477e5feef4315502f0_1-15%2B(2).jpg)
USAGE DISCLAIMER: The duplicating, uploading and distribution of this work/ data without permission or rightfully crediting the author is a theft of the author’s intellectual property. If you would like permission to use material, please contact hello@selfcareeverydamnday.com. Thank you for your support.
11% of men believe 5-10 sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
5% of women believe 5-10 sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
42% of men believe 20+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
29% of women believe 20+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
29% of men believe 40+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
33% of women believe 40+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
18% of men believe 60+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
33% of women believe 60+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
Thank you to everyone who voted!
I would love to hear your thoughts on this data. DM me on Instagram or leave a comment below!
xX,Stephanie
Before you read on, I have to admit, I was really unsure about what ranges to use (hence the larger ranges). I wanted the poll to be nonjudgemental/ inclusive enough for people to feel comfortable honestly sharing this intimate information about themselves. By providing larger ranges for men and women, I believed this would give us enough data to generate a general answer for this “don’t ask, don’t tell” topic.
Let’s dive in.
How many sexual partners have men and women had?
![](https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6593914e7a7ca5bdd0d24ea2/65e6d3efa1e5e67d90dbc3c9_image-asset%20(1).jpeg)
USAGE DISCLAIMER: The duplicating, uploading and distribution of this work/ data without permission or rightfully crediting the author is a theft of the author’s intellectual property. If you would like permission to use material, please contact hello@selfcareeverydamnday.com. Thank you for your support.
42% of men have had 1-15 sexual partners.
55% of women have had 1-15 sexual partners.
35% of men have had 16-40 sexual partners.
34% of women have had 16-40 sexual partners.
16% of men have had 41-80 sexual partners.
9% of women have had 41-80 sexual partners.
7% of men have had 80+ sexual partners.
2+ of women have had 80+ sexual partners.
For those of you wondering how old these voters are: The majority of my engaged audience are male and females, ages 25-40.
Related Article:Should you ask your partner how many people they’ve slept with?
How many sex partners is considered a lot or ‘too high’?
![](https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6593914e7a7ca5bdd0d24ea2/65e6d5477e5feef4315502f0_1-15%2B(2).jpg)
USAGE DISCLAIMER: The duplicating, uploading and distribution of this work/ data without permission or rightfully crediting the author is a theft of the author’s intellectual property. If you would like permission to use material, please contact hello@selfcareeverydamnday.com. Thank you for your support.
11% of men believe 5-10 sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
5% of women believe 5-10 sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
42% of men believe 20+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
29% of women believe 20+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
29% of men believe 40+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
33% of women believe 40+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
18% of men believe 60+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
33% of women believe 60+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
Thank you to everyone who voted!
I would love to hear your thoughts on this data. DM me on Instagram or leave a comment below!
xX,Stephanie
Before you read on, I have to admit, I was really unsure about what ranges to use (hence the larger ranges). I wanted the poll to be nonjudgemental/ inclusive enough for people to feel comfortable honestly sharing this intimate information about themselves. By providing larger ranges for men and women, I believed this would give us enough data to generate a general answer for this “don’t ask, don’t tell” topic.
Let’s dive in.
How many sexual partners have men and women had?
![](https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6593914e7a7ca5bdd0d24ea2/65e6d3efa1e5e67d90dbc3c9_image-asset%20(1).jpeg)
USAGE DISCLAIMER: The duplicating, uploading and distribution of this work/ data without permission or rightfully crediting the author is a theft of the author’s intellectual property. If you would like permission to use material, please contact hello@selfcareeverydamnday.com. Thank you for your support.
42% of men have had 1-15 sexual partners.
55% of women have had 1-15 sexual partners.
35% of men have had 16-40 sexual partners.
34% of women have had 16-40 sexual partners.
16% of men have had 41-80 sexual partners.
9% of women have had 41-80 sexual partners.
7% of men have had 80+ sexual partners.
2+ of women have had 80+ sexual partners.
For those of you wondering how old these voters are: The majority of my engaged audience are male and females, ages 25-40.
Related Article:Should you ask your partner how many people they’ve slept with?
How many sex partners is considered a lot or ‘too high’?
![](https://cdn.prod.website-files.com/6593914e7a7ca5bdd0d24ea2/65e6d5477e5feef4315502f0_1-15%2B(2).jpg)
USAGE DISCLAIMER: The duplicating, uploading and distribution of this work/ data without permission or rightfully crediting the author is a theft of the author’s intellectual property. If you would like permission to use material, please contact hello@selfcareeverydamnday.com. Thank you for your support.
11% of men believe 5-10 sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
5% of women believe 5-10 sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
42% of men believe 20+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
29% of women believe 20+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
29% of men believe 40+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
33% of women believe 40+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
18% of men believe 60+ sexual partners for a woman is a lot/ too high.
33% of women believe 60+ sexual partners for a man is a lot/ too high.
Thank you to everyone who voted!
I would love to hear your thoughts on this data. DM me on Instagram or leave a comment below!
xX,Stephanie