A woman from our Instagram community asked this question below. In turn, 190+ men responded.

Unattainable beauty standards, photoshop/ filters and porn has put an insane amount of societal pressure on women; specifically on their bodies. Enough pressure for women to consider Labiaplasty. Labiaplasty is surgery performed to alter the appearance of the labia; most commonly performed to make one’s labia shorter/ smaller.

A note for the men reading this:
If you judge someone for something they cannot change about themselves - something they were likely born with, your lack of self-awareness is just as unattractive as your ignorant judgement. And if you’re one of the men who wrote or agree with any of the offensive responses below, you yourself better have a perfect physique, and penis: color, cut, length AND girth. But unfortunately, none of these physical attributes will make up for your lack of humility, intellect and basic respect.

Note #2
Something a lot of people fail to realize about sexual anatomy is that people are simply born different shapes and sizes. Men believe because a woman has a longer labia or because she’s “not as tight” as he’d expect, that she must be extremely sexually active or older. This is simply untrue. A woman can be sexually inexperienced and have a longer labia/ bigger vaginal opening/ circumference because of her genetics.  So please get that senseless narrative out of your head.

Woo! Now that we got all that out of the way I can share the responses from 190+ men about this topic.

Summary:
The majority of men say they don’t care. But what they do care about is hygiene (smell/ hair maintenance).

190+ responses from men:

1. Hair maintenance > Labia maintenance
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3. Natural is best. Doctored is gross!
4. I think we notice taste/smell more than anything lol 🤷🏽‍♂️
5. Don’t notice
6. No lol
7. ..same way women have preference of 🍆🌶🍤
8. Yes we do, the bigger question is how do some girls not know their V smells funky.
9. What…. Please don’t get surgery. We barely remember what we wore yesterday.
10. I think as long as it’s not a jungle down there, they all look diff, and that’s okay.
11. I love vaginas of all shapes and sizes
12. I’ve never had this be an issue
13. Yeah everyone looks different down there, some cuter than others but it’s doesn’t matter
14. We don’t care.
15. To a degree, hygiene is far more important.
16. I STRONGLY prefer bigger lips. Actually disappointed when they’re small/nonexistent
17. Yes and Yes 😂
18. This is absolutely hilarious, I hope they are kidding
19. Fixing stuff we don’t care about.
20. Do not care. Pleased to be there!
21. Some are much prettier than others I will say that, but I’ve never had one turn me off.
22. Depends
23. Oh my fucking god - no. Don’t do that all vjj are wonderful!!!
24. What in the world
25. I mean do women notice what a man’s penis is like??? 😂
26. Notice, yes…care, not really. Some prettier than others but clean/well manicured is 🔑
27. Stop.. ladies.. If your man don’t love you the way you are upgrade to a new man
28. This seems to be more self consciousness than driven by men’s reactions imo
29. We do unfortunately
30. Hell nah
31. Nope. Unless it’s like to the point where skin gets pulled in during sex, not at all. Smell n taste matter more
32. We notice but everyone's body is different to appraise them all, everyone’s beautiful!
33. If it looks like a wizards sleeve then yeah otherwise no. Just make sure it doesn’t smell 😆
34. Men don’t care. No ones turning down the seggs, especially when you’re that close
35. There are definitely cute and ugly vaginas
36. Not really… they’re all just a lil different
37. Doesn’t really matter from my exp.
38. If they love you they literally won’t care
39. Not at all
40. How old are these people getting this procedure? After kids?
41. All Vs are beautiful just the way they are
42. There are plenty of acceptable variations, but we care.
43. Nah not really. Just please be clean and healthy
44. That’s kind of a dumb question… girls obviously care what a dudes dick looks like
45. Def care lol
46. If a man is lucky enough to get a look at a girl’s vagina he shouldn’t be thinking twice
47. Men DON'T CARE about: what your cat looks like, lonjas, cellulite, flawed skin, etc
48. Not unless it’s a problem for them. Dicks aren’t that appealing to look at either lol
49. Do not care
50. Duh we notice… sometimes it matters, other times not.
51. Genital mutilation?
52. There can be better looking ones but as long as personal hygiene is a 10 it doesn’t matter
53. Would you need an example to base my opinion off. I would notice if it looks good so there’s that
54. Probably one of the things we notice the most
55. Fixing stuff we don’t care about.
56. It don’t matter what it looks like. So long as clean and kept
57. We do, but most of the time is doesn’t matter
58. Notice? Yes. Care? 99% of the time no.
59. NO
60. It’s not like I have a perfect looking penis so it doesn’t matter
61. We care
62. Don’t particularly care. Just has to feel good. :)
63. Not at all
64. I look and think wow like comfy
65. I hope most men don’t care. Labiaplasty seems extreme but it’s her body her choice!
66. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a vagina that looked bad.
67. Not something that I particularly care about. How it feels is more important
68. We notice, but at the same time, we really don’t care 🤷‍♂️
69. Nope
70. Notice-yes/Care-no. It’s about who you are. And the connection between two ppl
71. Don’t care what it looks like. As long as my dick fits in nicely
72. Absolutely we notice, and generally don’t care…but still have our favorite types.
73. No we don’t care
74. Notice, don’t care
75. Hellz no we don’t care. Quit with the plastic surgery already!
76. Unless it’s super loose.
77. As long as it isn’t scary lookin we good
78. Do we notice, yes. Do we care, no. (my babe sent me to answer this in the name of science)
79. Yes we notice. But as with everything, different men like different vaginas. I love big lips 😊
80. We care more about the taste and less about the appearance.
81. If we are close enough to see, we are good
82. …with men generally it’s more about maintenance, for beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
83. Roughly I would say it’s 50/50
84. Don’t care
85. Again, might notice. But seriously (unless there’s something sketchy like medically) not bothered
86. Don’t really care lol
87. What? Why would a woman do this?? No.
88. Not a bother. Everybody is different.
89. Idk what you call it (outies?) but definitely prefer that to innies lol.. Everyone’s different
90. Tbh some look better that others, but idc. Horrified 2 hear women r gettin plastic surgery!
91. As long as my partner is comfortable, I don’t care one but!
92. We notice
93. 😱 Please no! Y’all are beautiful just as is!
94. 💯. Just saw my exes vjj after a few years of not, and it wasn’t as pretty as before. 🤞 🤐
95. I don’t care what it looks like. There’s more to love and relationships than that
96. Hell no we don’t care.
97. Noticing and caring are two different things. Of course we notice. Won’t prevent sex though
98. I literally do not care what a vagina looks like. I do not find that part of a woman attractive regardless.
99. Yes
100. Waste of money.
101. A pretty looking labia definitely helps. I imagine a big, good looking dick helps? Same same.
102. Yes, some pussies are just plain ugly, and some are fucking beautiful.
103. No. As long as your vag doesn’t smell weird or have a 4’’ clitoris it doesn’t matter what it looks like.
104. Love what they look like. I’m just happy to be a part of the ‘’conversation’’ lol
105. To be brutally honest we notice smell and taste more than appearance.
106. I’d be shocked if people legitimately cared.
107. Yes we notice, but no we don’t care. They are all beautiful 😍
108. We notice but don’t care (unless there is A LOT of visible labia which is a turnoff usually)
109. For the most part no but respectfully there are a few who might
110. Couldn't care less
111. An absolutely unnecessary, ridiculous procedure
112. All are beautiful
113. Doesn’t matter, porn influences that stereotype
114. It can’t be out of control loose
115. It doesn’t matter
116. We definitely notice, but care? Nah, not really. For the fboys it’s a point of conversation later
117. Not the right move unless it’s really what you want. Your parts are fine as they are 😆
118. We do notice but don’t care
119. No, don’t care what they look like.
120. No.  Save your money
121. Do not care. Definitely do not care enough to go get surgery done.
122. Don’t notice, don’t care. Body confidence is hot regardless of what it or any part looks like
123. Of course we see it and no we don’t care. We LIKE them lmao
124. Yep and nope
125. Couldn’t care less
126. Kinda hard not to notice. But most are just whatever lol. I’ve only seen a few I thought looked…”weird”
127. Nope don’t check them out
128. Do not care
129. No we don’t
130. Not really
131. Notice yes, care no
132. Yes we notice. Don’t want it looking sloppy
133. Men are very visual. Of course we notice
134. Is it noticeable? Sure. Do we care? Nope
135. Yes we notice
136. Everyone has their preference. Not a big deal or worth surgery! Personality is key!
137. This is ridiculous. Men aren’t getting dick surgery. Love your partner for who they are.
138. Please. No vagina altering unless youre Binary or id as a fairy
139. Yes I notice but don’t care.
140. We care yes lol
141. Yess. U can always tell when someone has high miles!! Too much use leaves big ass lips
142. Notice? Yes. Care? Not really. Unless something is real off but even then usually no big deal
143. I notice when they’re “cute” but don’t care otherwise. I haven’t seen anything gross yet
144. Low key. Yes I notice and I probably shouldn’t care but I do. I don’t want one that looks beat up.
145. I think everyone can appreciate pretty genitals but it’s not the be all or end all
146. I couldn’t pick out my long-time gf’s vag in a crowd. Isn’t that why pornstars need tats?
147. I’m hyper-observant, so I will notice, but I don’t care.
148. Absolute waste just find the many that loves all of you.
149. As long as the lips aren’t too big. I’m not bothered
150. And! Some guys might even be more attracted to a bigger labia
151. We like them all. I’ve never heard of a guy being turned off by how a girl’s bits looked.
152. Never ever heard men even have a preference other thank available 💀. Woman’s media F
153. As long as it doesn’t smell putrid, I’m golden
154. Could care less unless there is something insane happening, which would expect a convo b4
155. No be comfortable with who you are and men should respect that. Simple as that
156. Absolutely not
157. No we don’t care
158. Yep definitely
159. This question will hurt feelings. Nobody wants to eat something hanging down your leg 🤢
160. I have a preference in the type of look I prefer, but would rarely be a dealbreaker
161. Definitely notice, and again… No real man will care. Just bury your face in it and enjoy
162. Nope. Keep the sharp objects away from the lady sandwich…
163. I don’t understand that current trend, most vgs look perfectly unique
164. Most guys do not care. They’re happy/content with being there in the first place. Lol
165. I do notice and i think most guys do but i don’t it’s matters as much as hygiene and sensation
166. Some do, just like women care whether a man is or isn’t circumcised.
167. Yes we notice. No we don’t care … but we can tell that you do. Confidence is key !!!
168. No not really
169. I notice, and am fascinated! Just clean and a little maintained is enough!
170. We don’t care and would you honestly want to be with a man who cares? Please don’t do it
171. I think it’s normal to notice things but if you are into the person it doesn’t matter much
172. Not at all. Every woman is beautiful in their own way.
173. Single for 5 years and in my 30s now, I’ll take anything 😅😅
174. Yes we do, there is such thing as an ugly vag and a nice looking vag!
175. We notice but we don’t care lol. Who hurt y’all?
176. Absolutely not
177. Not at all, I think hygiene down there is far more important than looks lol
178. Yeah but don’t care. We’re with a naked woman so we hit the Jack pot
179. For sure
180. Idek what that is^ but I definitely look at it get all up in it 😜😝😈
181. I have never heard a man say “she had a weird looking vag” its all about her hygiene lol
182. It does matter. Less so if there is love/commitment. “Kitty is kitty” men scare me. 😂
183. Honestly don’t care - all about the fits and feeling
184. Oh this will be a good one haha
185. We notice. Don’t really care how it looks, but smell and taste we 100% care about
186. Notice, yes. But if a guy actually likes you he won’t be shallow enough for it to matterI prefer longer labia! I imagine men like it all, but have preferences.
187. It’s all pink on the inside 🤷‍♂️😂
188. Yes we do we not just trying to get any monkey 😂 gotta get it looking nice
189. Prefer natural , don’t get surgery it is beautiful naturally
190. We definitely do. Just like you notice penis size. Please please please take care of your vaginas. Alot don’t
191. Couldn’t care less and can’t picture one to this day
192. Nope - just happy to be there 😂
193. Be genuine when we kiss or give/get oral and we are turned on.
194. Everyone’s is different and beautiful in its own right. We don’t care.
195. Don’t care
196. Nope not even something we care to look at
197. All look different! Doesn’t matter
198. Doesn’t matter, just stoked to be having sex 🤣
199. Totally unnecessary
200. Yes we care!!!!!! You don’t want it looking like calamari!
201. To an extent, but if the vibes right no one cares….
202. No